Friday, November 10, 2006

Our Father…

“There is one God and Father of us all who is above all, and through all, and in all.” Ephesians 4:6

“Every good and perfect gift is from the Father….” James 1:17

Strongest Dad in the World [From Sports Illustrated, By Rick Reilly]

I try to be a good father. Give my kids mulligans. Work nights to pay for their text messaging. Take them to swimsuit shoots. But compared with Dick Hoyt, I stink! Eighty-five times he's pushed his disabled son, Rick, 26.2 miles in marathons. Eight times he's not only pushed him 26.2 miles in a wheelchair but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy while swimming and pedaled him 112 miles in a seat on the handlebars--all in the same day. Dick's also pulled him cross-country skiing, taken him on his back mountain climbing and once hauled him across the U.S on a bike. Makes taking your son bowling look a little lame, right? And what has Rick done for his father? Not much--except save his life.

This love story began in Winchester, Mass., 43 years ago, when Rick was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth, leaving him brain-damaged and unable to control his limbs. "He'll be a vegetable the rest of his life," Dick says doctors told him and his wife, Judy, when Rick was nine months old. "Put him in an institution." But the Hoyts weren't buying it. They noticed the way Rick's eyes followed them around the room. When Rick was 11 they took him to the engineering department at Tufts University and asked if there was anything to help the boy communicate. ``No way,'' Dick says he was told. "There's nothing going on in his brain." "Tell him a joke," Dick countered. They did,. Rick laughed! Turns out a lot was going on in his brain. Rigged up with a computer that allowed him to control the cursor by touching a switch with the side of his head, Rick was finally able to communicate. First words? "Go Bruins!" And after a high school classmate was paralyzed in an accident and the school organized a charity run for him, Rick pecked out, "Dad, I want to do that. " Yeah, right. How was Dick, a self-described "porker" who never ran more than a mile at a time, going to push his son five miles? Still, he tried. "Then it was me who was handicapped," Dick says. "I was sore for two weeks."

That day changed Rick's life. "Dad," he typed, "when we were running, it felt like I wasn't disabled anymore!" And that sentence changed Dick's life. He became obsessed with giving Rick that feeling as often as he could. He got into such hard-belly shape that he and Rick were ready to try the 1979 Boston Marathon. "No way," Dick was told by a race official. The Hoyts weren't quite a single runner, and they weren't quite a wheelchair competitor. For a few years Dick and Rick just joined the massive field and ran anyway, then they found a way to get into the race officially. In 1983 they ran another marathon so fast they made the qualifying time for Boston the following year. Then somebody said, "Hey, Dick, why not a triathlon?" How's a guy who never learned to swim and hadn't ridden a bike since he was six going to haul his 110-pound kid through a triathlon? Still, Dick tried. Now they've done 212 triathlons, including four grueling 15-hour Ironmans in Hawaii. It must be a buzzkill to be a 25-year-old stud getting passed by an old guy towing a grown man in a dinghy, don't you think?

Hey, Dick, why not see how you'd do on your own? "No way," he says. Dick does it purely for "the awesome feeling" he gets seeing Rick with a cantaloupe smile as they run, swim and ride together. This year, at ages 65 and 43, Dick and Rick finished their 24th Boston Marathon, in 5,083rd place out of more than 20,000 starters. Their best time'? Two hours, 40 minutes in 1992--only 35 minutes off the world record, which, in case you don't keep track of these things, happens to be held by a guy who was not pushing another man in a wheelchair at the time. "No question about it," Rick types. "My dad is the Father of the Century."

And Dick got something else out of all this too. Two years ago he had a mild heart attack during a race. Doctors found that one of his arteries was 95% clogged. "If you hadn't been in such great shape," one doctor told him, "you probably would've died 15 years ago." So, in a way, Dick and Rick saved each other's life. Rick, who has his own apartment (he gets home care) and works in Boston, and Dick, retired from the military and living in Holland, Mass., always find ways to be together. They give speeches around the country and compete in some backbreaking race every weekend, including this Father's Day. That night, Rick will buy his dad dinner, but the thing he really wants to give him is a gift he can never buy. "The thing I'd most like," Rick
types, "is that my dad sit in the chair and I push him once."

Our Father who is in heaven has a love for us which we can never repay.

“…in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loves us. For I am sure that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth nor anything else, will be able to separate us from the Love of God in Christ Jesus.” Romans 8:39

Blessings Always in All Ways,
Steve
<><

Wednesday, November 08, 2006

Love Isn’t Easy

“For the measure you give will be the measure you receive.” (Luke 6:37)

It isn’t always easy to feel love for our fellow human beings. Even minor annoying incidents can get in the way---such as getting cut off in traffic, stuck behind an older couple taking their time, delayed by a cashier in training, or hassled by a homeless person panhandling.

Instead of giving in to frustration, let’s try opening our hearts.

The person who cut you off in traffic might be a single mom rushing home from work trying to arrive ahead of her child en route from school and pressed to take the little one to an activity.

The disinterested cashier may be a college student struggling with exams and worried about losing her student loan.

The older meandering couple may be savoring their moments together knowing there aren’t many left.

The homeless panhandler may be a slave to addictions that we can only imagine, and trying desperately to break free from them.

When we’re beginning to feel annoyed, frustrated, angered…express love: “For the measure you give will be the measure you receive.”

(credit to my friend, Fr. Dan Cody, for inspiring these thoughts)

Blessings Always in All Ways,
Steve
<><

Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Demons

“Amazed, the people asked, ’What is in this man’s words that even demons obey him?’ 37The story of what he had done spread like wildfire throughout the whole region’ .” Lk. 4:35 (TLB)

A week ago tonight our daughter called informing us she was on her way home from work. It was dusk, and we reminded her to be extra careful as she entered our housing development: tonight there would be ghosts, goblins and other such creatures wandering through the streets---it was Halloween. Regardless of our feelings about Halloween as a “holiday”, it puts directly in our face the concept of demons.

We live an unrealistic life if we think demons are a fictitious feature. There’s nothing the force opposing God (Satan) would like more than for us to think demons are unreal.

The Scriptures make clear the existence of “fallen angels”, called “demons” from Genesis (which speaks of the “Serpent”)---to Revelation (which speaks of the ultimate battle between Good and Evil). Created as good by God, Satan and other fallen angels, consciously chose evil over God. Because we have a God who wishes us to choose to love Him rather than be forced to love Him, He allows us to choose otherwise as well, of course.

In Jesus’ ministry, demons appear and are mentioned often: at the time of His desert fast, as demons Jesus’ exorcised in many instances, in many of Jesus’ teachings, and in Jesus’ commission to His apostles to dispel demons. Demons are real and live among us. We encounter
them everyday. They’re in all aspects of life. At Halloween some of us are disguised as demons…but everyday demons are disguised as our friends, our business partners, our coworkers.

The Scriptures have scores of references of the fallen angels…demons…who have consciously chosen to oppose God. Satan, and His demons, definitely tempt us…but God can always overcome Him (them) if we choose to let God to do so. We make that choice through prayer…meditation (focus on God’s Love for us)…reading of Scriptures…and…associating with God’s Body (the Church).

Do demons exist? Are you kidding!?

And every moment of every day we have the choice of allowing demons to rule our thinking, our feelings, and our living…or to allow God to.

“Amazed, the people asked, ’What is in this man’s words that even demons obey him?’ 37The story of what he had done spread like wildfire throughout the whole region.’"

Blessings Always in All Ways,

Steve
<><